Keys to Planning a Great Company Holiday Party

It’s that time of year - lots of shining lights, champagne, goodwill, and office parties! I’ve been asked by many friends to help review and consult on their company holiday party plans and even though it’s getting late in the season, here are my tips and recommendations for planning a party that’s fun, on-brand, relevant to your attendees, and budget-friendly.

Know Your Demographic

Before you even start looking for a venue and brainstorming ideas, make sure you have a solid grasp on the demographic that’ll be attending your event. For instance, if you’re working for a tech startup where the majority of attendees will be trend-conscious millennials, you’re going to want to think of a very different experience than if you’re working for an established bank where the typical demographic is conservative and middle-aged. The demographic of your event will influence everything from the venue you select to the timing of the party, any activities, music and the food served. My husband works for a food delivery tech start-up, and their holiday parties are notorious for starting late and going late into the night and utilizing locally trending food trucks for late night eats rather than traditional caterers. 

Plan with Diversity and Inclusion in Mind

Along the lines of knowing your demographic, make sure you’re planning inclusively. I always advocate giving people a “plus one” to these events, but always advise against planning a seated dinner because that can make people who don’t bring a +1 feel self-conscious seated without a partner. It also makes it harder to plan for flexibility, which also takes into consideration people who may not be able to afford child care for a long period of time and can arrive and depart the party at the time that works for their family.  You can also consider giving ride-share and childcare vouchers to make getting to and from the event more affordable to your employees. Make sure that your entertainment is not offensive to any of your attendees, and that you’re considering all dietary needs when menu planning. When hiring vendors, consider diversity. For example, hire both male and female bartenders, and consider a mix of ethnicities, ages and races when hiring your photographer, DJ, and catering team. Having diversity baked into the fabric of your event will help make all demographics feel represented. Also be mindful to not make anyone uncomfortable. While having Santa Claus come to the holiday party may sound like a fun idea, it can make some with different religious practices feel uncomfortable, so err on the side of neutral when it comes to religious holiday connotations and references.

Consider Theme and Venue

Choosing a theme for the event can also help unite people and make standard holiday parties more creative and engaging. Stuck on a theme that applies to all? Try a decade in history. Asking everyone to dress up in 80’s or roaring 20’s attire can make a boring holiday party a little more interesting and also more inclusive. You can also look for an out-of-the-box venue to match the theme. Try a jazz club, speakeasy or a roller-rink to make the party unique!

Think About What Your Giving Back

Holidays are all about giving, so I always encourage building in a give-back activity or initiative into holiday parties. It can be as easy as having everyone bring a book, toy, or warm coat to donate, or can be an activity that everyone does together, like building bikes, teddy bears, wrapping gifts, or “health kits” to donate to local shelters. One year, for my team’s small holiday offsite, we decided to adopt several families that had lost everything in the Napa fires and fulfil their holiday wishes.  We divided our team into smaller groups, gave each the wish list and a budget, and let everyone spend three hours shopping in downtown San Francisco for gifts for their family. We then enjoyed cocktails and appetizers while wrapping the gifts. It was a great way to give back and also a great teambuilding activity. When planning a corporate event, also consider the vendors you hire. At my company holiday party this year, I specifically selected a caterer that uses only organic and sustainably sourced products. The food was beautiful and delicious, and also had a minimal negatiec impact on the environment.

Focus on Just Three Things:

There’s limited time at holiday parties, and people generally want the opportunity to socialize with as many people as possible. Limit the time you spend on over-thinking the activities, and focus on the top three things that you think are important to people at yoru company. For instance, if they really care about great food, make sure you hire an excellent caterer or have an out of the box creative culinary experience (live action, food trucks, make-your-own treats, etc.) If alcohol is particularly important, consider pouring more budget into that area and bringing in an interactive component (champagne tasting and pairing is fun and festive). Music can be a great way to add a memorable aspect to the event. Consider a surprise solo performance, live jazz band to kick off the night, or even a comedian if the atmosphere is right. If activities are important, plan one or two fun experiences to entertan guests. Photobooths or photo-ops are a great idea because they offer a way for guests to interact at the event,  and also provide a memento of the event, especially since people tend to dress-up for holiday parties. Remember, at the end of the day, geusts tend to remember just three things at any given event, so pick your three areas of focus and prioritize your budget and time!

Budget Saving Ideas:

The end of the year is often a time that companies want to give back, but are also mindful of cost-saving strategies as budgets are max’d out. If budget is particularly tight, consider a day-time event and position it as “family friendly”. You’ll save considerably on food, booze, and venue rental and also win many people by giving them an evening back! You can also consider post-poning your holiday party until January. Venue rental rates drop considerably after the holidays and it also gives people something to look forward to in the new year. Consider limiting options for food and beverage, but make them higher quality options. For instance, I had a budget for my wines but really wanted to make sure we had a good sparkling option. So I convinced the caterer to give us a great sparkling option, and just remove on of the white wines that was going to be offered. You can also cut back on expensive florals (nobody remembers these anyways) with fun, edible centerpieces like candy and confections that double as desserts.

In short, employing some strategy to your office holiday party planning can make the difference between a success or a flop. I’d love to hear about your successes (or areas for improvement) - send me your best holiday party stories!


Creating Memories Around the Holidays

One of the reasons I embarked on a career in event planning is my love of the memories I remember experiencing as a child around events. Events children attend often revolve around the holidays (what five year old goes to a movie premiere or sales kickoff?) so my earliest memories of events were the ones my Mom hosted regularly at our home around every holiday: Thanksgiving, Christmas, Halloween, Easter, the Fourth of July and birthdays. Now that my own son is a toddler and starting to engage in the holidays, I’m really enjoying starting traditions and creating experiences with him that I hope he carries into adulthood that way I have. Here are a few of my tips for creating lasting memories around the holidays, using Christmas as an example given the season.


Start Traditions

  • Holidays are a great time to start cherished traditions that you’ll look forward to all year. Consider a festive pre-Christmas event. For example, as a child, my family would always drive an hour away up to San Francisco to see a performance of The Nutcracker Ballet, then stay overnight and enjoy the lights and Christmas shopping of the City the next day. My husband and I now have a tradition of doing “caviar and gift-opening” then date night dinner the Saturday night before Christmas to give us a breather from holiday parties and the perfect opportunity to celebrate our love which is one of the greatest gifts.

  • Every Christmas Eve, my Mom had the tradition of letting my sister and I open one present, and it was always new pajamas! There was actually strategy to her gift because it guaranteed we would look cute for the Christmas photos and videos the next morning.

  • One of my own traditions is giving my husband and son a new glass-blown ornament each year that is related to something meaningful to them that year. This has helped grow our collection of tree decorations and is also so sentimental to unwrap each ornament and remember the years through the themes represented. For instance, the year I got pregnant with my son, I told my husband I had a bun in the oven, so he received a cinnamon bun ornament that year. I still smile with joy when I see that shiny glazed ornament remembering that happy time!



Make it Interactive

  • Come December, we find ourselves inundated with so many holiday party invitations. If you’re planning on hosting one, I recommend giving it a unique twist to help it stand out as more memorable than the rest.  Consider how to you will entice people to attend your event, and once they’re there, hot you will engage your guests with more than just food and drinks. 

  • One idea is to host a “tree decorating party”, inviting each guest to bring an ornament to add to your tree. Not only will it save you the time and money to decorate it, but it will give guests a meaningful way to contribute and engage with others, and share the reason why they brought a specific ornament to share. 

  • Another friend of mine always hosts a Champagne party and encourages everyone to bring two bottles of (real) champagne to the party: One for everyone to open and drink there, and one to give as a gift to someone at the party. 

  • My Mom would also always host a gingerbread house-making party for the neighborhood kids. Introducing nostalgia into adult-events is a great way to break down barriers, and encourage people to embrace their inner creative child. I’ll often leave crayons and paper, playdoh, silly putty, or other toys as place settings because it encourages people to figure out what to do with it and think outside the box while making conversation.



Anticipation and Sensory Cues:

  • Just like with corporate events, I like to encourage planners to focus not just on an event (or holiday) itself, but on the experience leading up to and following an event. Studies have shown that people tend to enjoy the build up leading up to a vacation more than the vacation itself because of anticipation. Similarly, you can use fun, memorable tactics to generate anticipation and excitement around your holiday event well in advance of the actual event. 

  • As a child I loved the entire month of December, not just Christmas Day when we got to rip open our presents because my Mom built so many fun traditions into the preparation of the holiday. We would start by getting out all of the Christmas music CD’s (remember those?) and my father would always let us buy a new Christmas CD or two each year to add to the collection. This set the scene for us to then start decorating the inside of the home, baking cookies, setting up the tree, all with the cheery atmosphere created. 

  • My Mom would always get us an advent calendar so we could count down the days until Christmas. There are so many creative advent calendars out there now - featuring gifts, chocolate, charms...you can go above and beyond for a loved one by making a custom advent calendar. Each window represents something meaningful to that person (can be photos, words, or even small trinkets). Etsy is filled with ideas for how to execute!

  • Even simple sensory cues can really ignite people’s memories. I like to brew a pot of mulled cider while people are in my home for a party or while decorating the tree to put everyone in a festive spirit. 


Since reminiscing is such a fun part of making and reliving memories, ask your parents, grandparents ,and friends about their holiday customs growing up. Sharing stories, traditions, and values is the best gift to each other that doesn't cost a thing and might also inspire you.

I’d love to hear about your traditions - please drop me a line here!